The wait is over! Tanja's highly anticipated new book Beyond Sex: Tantra,
a practical guide to extraordinary living, is finally here.
Get the details below and a glimpse into the book in the Preview of
Chapter 1.
This book is for anyone and everyone looking to take life from
mere existence, to living in full human potential.
Beyond Sex: Tantra
A practical guide to extraordinary living
“Tanja Diamond inhales the ancient alchemy of Tantra and breathes new life into us through our senses,
re–awakening the magic that is our birthright.”-Rev. Dr. Katherine O'Connell, Jungian Psychologist, Astrologer,
Author- End of the Line


Tanja Diamond has bridged the gap between the “woo woo” and practical understanding and implementation of spiritual
awakening in Beyond Sex: Tantra. At once funny and controversial, Tanja delivers with her usual flair and explains
to us that Tantra is more than sexual technique; its practices can be used for business, life and relationships.
Prepare yourself for a life changing journey and empowerment as you travel through chapters ranging from Arousal,
Intent and Integrity, Business for Tantra and even an understanding of why Zen is for Sissies!
"Tanja is on fire and she is living the words other people simply talk about. I find her brilliant,
entertaining, sexy and I count myself blessed to be part of her Inner Circle. Life is far more interesting with
Tanja around." -Darren Jacklin "The Mega Manifestor" www.DarrenJacklin.com
"Tanja will awaken your energy. She has dedicated her life to sharing the healing practices from many traditions
to those ready to wake-up and live a life filled with energy and love. Get ready to get plugged in and turned
on..."-David Pond, Astrologer/author/speaker www.reflectingpond.com
"Tanja embodies the depth of love and power of shakti that is required in making fundamental change in
consciousness for all of those who are blessed to find their way into her heart."-Caroline Muir, Speaker/Teacher,
Divine Feminine and Source Tantra www.CarolineMuir.com
From the Foreword
What is Tantra?
My definition of the concept of Tantra is, quite simply:
"Tantra is the ultimate love affair with yourself and all of your existence. In the process of igniting your
internal flame, you come to experience all ordinary moments as extraordinary experiences. Immersed in that
experience, you realize that you embody the divine, there is nothing else to need or want but that moment."
Table of Contents
Chapter 1 Arousal of life- Come on, get turned on
Chapter 2 Beliefs are holding you back- Reprogramming your brain
Chapter 3 Conscious Breath- Wake up
Chapter 4 Doing versus Being- The Mind Bender
Chapter 5 Expansion and Contraction- The Universe in Motion
Chapter 6 Forgiveness- I don’t buy it
Chapter 7 Gratitude- The Power of Real Change
Chapter 8 Healing your Sexual Self- Creating Empowerment
Chapter 9 Intent and Integrity- The Path of Impeccability
Chapter 10 Jumping around Looking Wacky! Everything is Vibrating
Chapter 11 Knowledge is Overrated- Do some Unlearning
Chapter 12 Love is a self state- Be in Love Now
Chapter 13 Manifesting your Desires- Create Abundance
Chapter 14 Nourish Yourself and Live in Pleasure
Chapter 15 Orgasm and Women’s Sexual Satisfaction- Are we Orgasm Obsessed?
Chapter 16 Present- Experiencing in the Now
Chapter 17 Questions for your Journey
Chapter 18 Relationships aren’t working- Evolving a new model
Chapter 19 Sex- The Five levels of Sexual Mastery
Chapter 20 Tantra for Business- Building Empires
Chapter 21 Union- The Tantra Dance of Sexual Loving
Chapter 22 Vajra- The Wand of Light
Chapter 23 What’s with the “Woo Woo”? Do I need to go there
Chapter 24 X-rated- Why Porn is Destroying your Sex Life
Chapter 25 Yoni- The Sacred Space
Chapter 26 Zen is for Sissies- Sitting Still May not be Working
Chapter 1 preview
Arousal of life…Come on, get turned on!
Arouse: to awaken from sleep, to excite. Arousal, the act of being aroused.
Arousal is a way to experience living, from the tastes we taste, to the smells we smell. We can choose to be
acutely aware of these or completely tune them out. When we tune our senses out, life can become dull and bland. We
then may seek to find experiences outside of our self to enhance and reactivate our self.
Looking outside for arousal leaves most of us feeling lacking. This empty feeling leads to more searching and more
emptiness and we desperately wait for something to pull us out of our bleak existence.
As we become dulled to our senses we lose the ability to feel sensation, to hear sounds, see colors, taste things
and to experience pleasure in our bodies as we once did. I believe we become depressed in this state. Sexual
depression in the form of low libido for women and erectile dysfunction for men is seen as medical- I see it as
spiritual. I see it as a lack of living in full arousal.Even further I feel we not only suffer from sexual
depression but emotional and intellectual depression as well.
As humans we have the potential to be aroused in many different ways and through lots of different channels. One
of the greatest gifts we have is the ability to experience life from a profoundly deep place, and living in arousal
is the key to accessing those depths.
As children we came into the world in arousal of everything and insatiably curious. We lived for the moment of new
sensations, reveling in how things felt,
the texture in our hands, ears, mouth and anywhere else we could explore it. Intellectually everything was new and
we expanded our minds almost minute by minute.
We looked at green and saw hundreds of shades as our eyes feasted on the sights around us. Our taste buds exploded
in response to the food placed in our mouths, we were acutely aware of all the sound around us. Life was a delight
to be engaged in.
When we hear the word arousal as adults we tend to limit this expression to our genitals. The genitals are
usually the last place arousal is lost because of the evolutionary need to procreate. The arousal in this area of
our bodies can be a joy or a frustration. We see it as joy when we have some way to celebrate it, as an annoyance
when we are single or experience frustration when the sexual energy is stuck there.
When I am out on stage teaching to live in full arousal the question I get is how do you concentrate if you are
running around horny all the time?
I am not horny all the time. I am in full-blown arousal all over and throughout my entire body. This is not a
feeling I would ever want to get out of, or lose. I want to make it even bigger and bigger. I love living my life
on fire, milking every ounce of each experience fully and completely.
Learning to move your sexual energy up out of the genitals and through your entire body takes all the
frustration out of the crotch and leaves it freed up forcreativity and to live life fully engaged. One of the
practices of Tantra is the ability to do this.
Sexual energy is potent and when used through our body it enlivens us in a way we didn’t know was possible. We
want and we need to live in arousal. Living in full body, unabashed arousal of all our senses can help us live a
life that we truly experience deeply and in connection to everything around us.
Come on, jump on board, your arousal is free, fun and bound to raise some eyebrows!
How to:
Gather friends and/or a lover and some really yummy food. Get foods that delight the senses with color, smell
and texture that you can eat with your fingers even if it’s messy (that’s more fun anyway).
First feast your eyes on the food, really drink it in, and use your eyes to notice everything. Then feel the
food with your fingers, roll it, squeeze it, caress it, watch others have fun as well. Then feel it with your lips,
top and bottom, inhale as you do this for maximum experience, touch it to your tongue. Before you put it in your
mouth really desire it, breath your arousal up into your mouth, play, and laugh. Once you put it in your mouth
really savor it. Use your whole mouth and tongue, feel the juices slide down your throat, breathe.
Repeat and let others feed you and you feed them. Make an event out of the whole thing.

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