What Causes PE?
My thoughts and feelings are in red,
the black represents the stuff you will find else where on the
web.
Causes of PE...
Articles and advertisements, the
pharmaceutical companies, porn and other things that
perpetuate the myth that there is such a thing
Here's where it gets interesting, as everyone has a different
opinion on the subject ranging from anxiety, nutrition, stress,
deficiencies, illness, to psychological in nature.
All these opinions don't really help as there is too much
contradiction within the medical community so I'm only going to
tell you what I know for certain...
A lot of misunderstanding is propagated by the pharmaceutical,
lotion and condom industry. It is in their best interest if you
think there is something wrong with you.
And here again.. this man is wanting you
to believe that there is as well something wrong with
you.
In reality 95% of all men have nothing medically wrong with
them and therefore don't require treatment via application of
products.
Right.. they need to let go of the label.
Get some education.
Most men will experience premature ejaculation at some point in
their lives. A period of abstinence will sometimes contribute
to this. Normally attributing to a building urge to ejaculate
as time passes, and when you do have sex you are not used to
the sensation which can be overpowering.
Excessive masturbation can have the same effect and can also
condition you to ejaculate early. If you believe this to be a
factor you can follow exercises which reverse these
effects.
Age, the younger you are the more testosterone runs through
your veins. Testosterone lifts your libido making your desire
to ejaculate stronger. This makes controlling ejaculation more
difficult.
Testosterone levels drop dramatically from late teens
throughout your 20's and generally continue descending through
life.
Anxiety (the big one) Everyone writes about anxiety as being
the biggest cause of PE. Pressure to perform has an effect on
performance because your not allowing your self to relax, which
I've found is a key points in solving PE.
Yes I do believe this as well, but still
most men do not even have PE to begin with.
Every time you fail, anxiety may rise leaving you in a
situation which is increasingly stressful, removing all the fun
from sex and subsequent sexual encounters become increasingly
difficult.
Especially if you believe that failure is
not lasting until your woman has an orgasm through intercourse.
Women will fake them to make sure you do not feel badly if they
think you need that to validate your sexual ego.
One of the greatest causes of PE. is over sensitivity during
sex. This causes a sensation overload, pushing you to shoot.
This is quite normal and can be overcome via a simple learning
process.
Tension and anxiety are the biggest
culprits.. For those few men that actually do have a bonifide
issue it is over sensitivity, but these guys never actually
make it to the intercourse part.
Continue on to read more about
PE...
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