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What Causes PE?

My thoughts and feelings are in red, the black represents the stuff you will find else where on the web.

 

Causes of PE...

Articles and advertisements, the pharmaceutical companies, porn and other things that perpetuate the myth that there is such a thing


Here's where it gets interesting, as everyone has a different opinion on the subject ranging from anxiety, nutrition, stress, deficiencies, illness, to psychological in nature.


All these opinions don't really help as there is too much contradiction within the medical community so I'm only going to tell you what I know for certain...


A lot of misunderstanding is propagated by the pharmaceutical, lotion and condom industry. It is in their best interest if you think there is something wrong with you.

And here again.. this man is wanting you to believe that there is as well something wrong with you.


In reality 95% of all men have nothing medically wrong with them and therefore don't require treatment via application of products.

 

Right.. they need to let go of the label. Get some education.


Most men will experience premature ejaculation at some point in their lives. A period of abstinence will sometimes contribute to this. Normally attributing to a building urge to ejaculate as time passes, and when you do have sex you are not used to the sensation which can be overpowering.

Excessive masturbation can have the same effect and can also condition you to ejaculate early. If you believe this to be a factor you can follow exercises which reverse these effects.

Age, the younger you are the more testosterone runs through your veins. Testosterone lifts your libido making your desire to ejaculate stronger. This makes controlling ejaculation more difficult.

Testosterone levels drop dramatically from late teens throughout your 20's and generally continue descending through life.

Anxiety (the big one) Everyone writes about anxiety as being the biggest cause of PE. Pressure to perform has an effect on performance because your not allowing your self to relax, which I've found is a key points in solving PE.

Yes I do believe this as well, but still most men do not even have PE to begin with.

Every time you fail, anxiety may rise leaving you in a situation which is increasingly stressful, removing all the fun from sex and subsequent sexual encounters become increasingly difficult.

Especially if you believe that failure is not lasting until your woman has an orgasm through intercourse. Women will fake them to make sure you do not feel badly if they think you need that to validate your sexual ego.

One of the greatest causes of PE. is over sensitivity during sex. This causes a sensation overload, pushing you to shoot. This is quite normal and can be overcome via a simple learning process.

Tension and anxiety are the biggest culprits.. For those few men that actually do have a bonifide issue it is over sensitivity, but these guys never actually make it to the intercourse part.

 

Continue on to read more about PE...

Long term effect of PE
Cures for PE

Natural cures for PE




 

 

 

 

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