Getting past porn/sex addiction

A 2 month coaching program for men

"My porn use caused my divorce. I didn't want to believe it but after reading an article Tanja had written and doing some private work with her I got smart. My life is back on track now and I feel so much healthier about sex and woman."

Carson, New Mexico, US

No doubt about it any addiction can ruin your life and relationships, and right now porn addiction is the number one addiction on the planet.

Sexual addictions are multifaceted and can have many different looks.

Even though pornography and erotica have been around for centuries, it is with the ability to view it so readily over the internet that had caused this addiction to explode.

Using porn every once in awhile isn't the real problem. Every once in awhile would be qualified as it not taking over your life.

Taking over your life looks like this,

	You have to use it to get off.
	Your own imagination isn't working.
	Thinking about the hot bank teller isn't doing it.
	You are excellent with typing one handed.
	There is more porn on your favorites than anything else.
	You keep the lube and Kleenex beside your computer and TV.
	You have to get a storage unit for your collection.
	You can't get on the computer without using a site or two.
	Your lover is complaining, or you have lost relationships because of it.
	You are lying about how much you use it
	You are using porn more than making love to someone real.
	You have used it when your kids are around.
	You have to make excuses for using it.

You feel badly about doing it but can't seem to stop.

One of the issues is what happens at a young age when it is used and anchored to intense stimulus (orgasm). The user anchors a visual to an intense stimulus over and over again and it creates pathways in the brain that limit the ability to be aroused by other things.

After awhile the high from the stimulus is bigger than the high from a real experience and people find themselves dissatisfied with real encounter and real bodies.

Another problem is what the porn industry has done to sex. It has become very fake and has no real people feeling anything real sexually. If you view it and believe that's what sex is about, it will lead to real issues in the bedroom.

Women are not interested in having sex the way porn show it done. It is one of the things that is ruining sex lives all over the world and especially in the US where there are 40 million sexless couples and the porn usage is very high.

And it is not what you think... the sexless marriages are caused frequently by the men using porn, instead of intimately connecting to their partners. Or the men are having sex like a porn star and the women are just not interested anymore.

Porn addiction need not take over your life or destroy your relationships; I can help you get back on track.

There are other ways we can find sex and sexuality addicting as well.

The litmus test usually revolves around shame and how much of your life is falling apart.

In this intensive 2 month coaching program you will learn about

	Why porn is hurting your sex life
	Getting rid of anxiety
	Using your breath
	Free yourself from shame, guilt, destructive behaviors and fear
	Experience self love
	Become body aware
	Heal old wounds that hold you back from your truest sexual expression
	Learn to changing imagery
	Understand being present
	Masturbation versus self pleasuring
	Dispel myths about sex

" I was at the end of my rope. I had lost everything that was important to me because of my porn use. I never thought I would be one of those guys. You literally saved my life..."

Trevor, LA California

For most people porn addiction is not quite as drastic as losing everything. Instead it is a nagging thing that resides in your life, hanging around the corner.

Most men use masturbation and porn as a way to medicate themselves to relieve tension. That doesn't sound like a problem but it creates a disinterest in actual women in your life and an addiction to the tension relief makes the circle go round.

Porn addiction has been compared to cocaine addiction because of similar neurochemical activity in the brain.

Some people struggle with a masturbation addiction as well as porn addiction. Masturbating and reaching climax only strengthens your addiction to porn more. If you only struggle with only masturbation addiction then you still have a chemical dependency on the brains neurochemicals. You brain does not see the difference between healthy sex with your spouse and releasing the chemicals yourself. So you become addicted to the easiest way to release the chemicals which is alone and doing the act far too often in some cases.

Whether the motive for consuming pornography is sexual appetite, escape/self-medication, or any other reason, engaging in these addictions causes the brain and body to endogenously produce and release chemical drugs into its own system. These chemicals include: epinephrine (an adrenal gland hormone that "locks-in" memories of experiences occurring at times of high arousal), adrenaline, adrenocorticotropic hormone (ACTH), noradrenaline, norepinephrine and testosterone, among others. This drug is dragging millions of troubled victims along in its destructive wake.

Persistent accessing of porn not only provides the addict with sexual arousal, but offers a way to self-medicate in order to escape the realities of life. A porn addict will suffer withdrawal symptoms when they try-or are compelled-to relinquish their vice for any length of time. The withdrawal symptoms may drive an addict to find porn and often causes him to act out his needs in inappropriate ways.

Take charge of your life today and get with my coaching program to take your life back.

 This is what to expect in your 2 month coaching program

	2 months personal study program with me
	1 hour of personal phone time with me each week, for a total of 8 hours -value $1200
	Special mp3's for your practice- value $197
	5 hours email consultations per month for a total of 10 hours - value $750
	First option at my classes and workshops and a 10 percent discount for 6 months
	My Conscious Breath ebook- value $47

 Because I am committed to my mission and want to see men out there living in empowerment and free from shame and guilt  I am offering this amazing coaching program for the price of $1,297

single payment option $1,297

Or take advantage of 2 payments of $648.50

2 payments of $648.50 billed to your credit card

I am really excited to get started on helping you get beyond this addition and issue.

 Once you sign up you will receive an email from me getting our schedules worked out.

Contact me for additional questions.