Getting past porn/sex addiction
A 2 month coaching program for men
"My porn use caused my divorce. I didn't
want to believe it but after reading an article Tanja had
written and doing some private work with her I got smart. My
life is back on track now and I feel so much healthier about
sex and woman."
Carson, New Mexico, US
No doubt about it any addiction can ruin your life and
relationships, and right now porn addiction is the number one
addiction on the planet.
Sexual addictions are multifaceted and can have many
different looks.
Even though pornography and erotica have
been around for centuries, it is with the ability to view it so
readily over the internet that had caused this addiction to
explode.
Using porn every once in awhile isn't the real problem.
Every once in awhile would be qualified as it not taking over
your life.
Taking over
your life looks like this,
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You have to use it to get off. |
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Your own imagination isn't working. |
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Thinking about the hot bank teller isn't doing
it. |
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You are excellent with typing one handed. |
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There is more porn on your favorites than anything
else. |
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You keep the lube and Kleenex beside your computer
and TV. |
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You have to get a storage unit for your
collection. |
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You can't get on the computer without using a site
or two. |
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Your lover is complaining, or you have lost
relationships because of it. |
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You are lying about how much you use it |
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You are using porn more than making love to someone
real. |
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You have used it when your kids are around. |
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You have to make excuses for using it. |
You feel badly
about doing it but can't seem to stop.
One of the issues is what happens at a young age when it is
used and anchored to intense stimulus (orgasm). The user
anchors a visual to an intense stimulus over and over again and
it creates pathways in the brain that limit the ability to be
aroused by other things.
After awhile the high from the stimulus is bigger than the high
from a real experience and people find themselves dissatisfied
with real encounter and real bodies.
Another problem is what the porn industry has done to sex. It
has become very fake and has no real people feeling anything
real sexually. If you view it and believe that's what sex is
about, it will lead to real issues in the bedroom.
Women are not interested in having sex the way porn show it
done. It is one of the things that is ruining sex lives all
over the world and especially in the US where there are 40
million sexless couples and the porn usage is very high.
And it is not what you think... the sexless marriages are
caused frequently by the men using porn, instead of
intimately connecting to their partners. Or the men are
having sex like a porn star and the women are just not
interested anymore. 58 percent of women would rather go
shopping than have sex they are having.
Porn addiction need not take over your life or destroy your
relationships; I can help you get back on track.
There are other ways we can find sex and sexuality addicting
as well.
The litmus test usually revolves around shame and how much
of your life is falling apart.
In this intensive 2 month coaching program you will
learn about
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Why porn is
hurting your sex life |
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Getting rid of
anxiety |
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Using your
breath |
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Free yourself from
shame, guilt, destructive behaviors and
fear |
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Experience self
love |
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Become body
aware |
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Heal old wounds that
hold you back from your truest sexual
expression |
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Learn to changing
imagery |
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Understand being
present |
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Masturbation
versus self pleasuring |
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Dispel myths
about sex |
" I was at the end of my rope. I had
lost everything that was important to me because of my porn
use. I never thought I would be one of those guys. You
literally saved my life..."
Trevor, LA California
For most people porn addiction is
not quite as drastic as losing everything. Instead it is a
nagging thing that resides in your life, hanging around the
corner.
Most men use masturbation and porn as a way to
medicate themselves to relieve tension. That doesn't sound like
a problem but it creates a disinterest in actual women in your
life and an addiction to the tension relief makes the circle go
round.
Porn addiction has been compared to
cocaine addiction because of similar neurochemical activity in
the brain.
Some people struggle with a masturbation
addiction as well as porn addiction. Masturbating and reaching
climax only strengthens your addiction to porn more. If you
only struggle with only masturbation addiction then you still
have a chemical dependency on the brains neurochemicals. You
brain does not see the difference between healthy sex with your
spouse and releasing the chemicals yourself. So you become
addicted to the easiest way to release the chemicals which is
alone and doing the act far too often in some cases.
Whether the motive for consuming pornography is
sexual appetite, escape/self-medication, or any other reason,
engaging in these addictions causes the brain and body to
endogenously produce and release chemical drugs into its own
system. These chemicals include: epinephrine (an adrenal gland
hormone that "locks-in" memories of experiences occurring at
times of high arousal), adrenaline, adrenocorticotropic hormone
(ACTH), noradrenaline, norepinephrine and testosterone, among
others. This drug is dragging millions of troubled victims
along in its destructive wake.
Persistent accessing of porn not only provides
the addict with sexual arousal, but offers a way to
self-medicate in order to escape the realities of life. A porn
addict will suffer withdrawal symptoms when they try-or are
compelled-to relinquish their vice for any length of time. The
withdrawal symptoms may drive an addict to find porn and often
causes him to act out his needs in inappropriate ways.
Take charge of your life today and get with my
coaching program to take your life back.
This is
what to expect in your 2 month coaching
program
Add it up and the cost for this
program would normally be $2,194
Because I am
committed to my mission and want to see men out there living
in empowerment and free from shame and
guilt I am offering
this amazing coaching program for the price of
$1,297

single payment
option $1,297
Or take
advantage of
2 payments of
$648.50

2 payments of
$648.50 billed to your credit card
I am really
excited to get started on helping you get beyond this addition
and issue.
Once you
sign up you will receive an email from me getting our schedules
worked out.
Contact me for additional
questions.
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