Tantra Sexual Knowledge and Connection For Couples

 a 3 month Tantra coaching program for couples

"I am very hopeful for the future"...

Hi Tanja: Thanks yet again for your amazing help. You have the ability to read my wife and I with such speed, insight and then provide graceful feedback. I think the two hours Sunday morning were the most valuable I have spent on our relationship. I am very hopeful for the future.
- Herman
Seattle, WA

Today’s couple’s face an enormous uphill battle. Humans are not evolving as fast as technology and that leaves our partnerships and families vulnerable.

We seem more checked in than ever by so many devices though by far we are way more checked out.

You found yourself here because you care about what happens to your partnership. And you long to have satisfaction that lasts for more than what you see happening around you.

You maybe be in a great stage of your relationship right now and are looking to keep it that way and even take it to the next level. Or you are just not as satisfied as you think you could be. You are in the right place.

If your relationship is currently in serious trouble, infidelity issues, sexual dysfunction or on the brink of a break up please click here to see my Couples Relationship Rescue page. 

We believe and we are taught to believe that as long as we love each other everything will be fine...

But nothing could be further from the truth. Love or lust is not enough to keep us together and happy.

When we lived for 30 or 40 years being monogamous and staying together till death do us part was a lot easier. We were struggling for survival and quite frankly we were not as influenced by the media about being happy or having the fairytale romance. We did not need any strategies in our relationships. We got together; maybe we were happy, maybe not. We either decide to find some happiness or stay miserable and we died.

Now we have expectations about relationships that are tough. Couple that with the no training in relationship management or true sexual loving (as opposed to just having sex) and we are bound for disappointments, broken promises, hearts and homes.

We receive no relationships training except the programming we had from our upbringing and parents.

We receive no sexual training except for health class, porn or trial and error.

We are confused about the real meanings of sexual chemistry, love, connection, intimacy and relationship and sexual satisfaction.

We have no strategies for long term success.

When we first meet the feeling of being in love is actually a series of chemical and hormonal reactions. These hormones (and I am not talking about sexual lust here ) make us feel in love and they  have an expiration date. That is 6 months to 1.5 years. This is not a matter of IF it happens it’s a matter of WHEN and if you are not taking the right steps to engage the other all important hormones of bonding, your relationship will start to decline and you will feel as though you just fell out of love.

“I love you; I’m just not IN love with you”

“I don’t know what happened. I just woke up one day and I felt different.”

“It’s not you, it’s me…”

“I just don’t feel the passion anymore”...

And we cycle in and out of love looking for that Special someone who will make us feel a certain way forever.

It is time to wake up and not stick your head in the sand about your relationship issues.

Time to understand the real deal about long term love affairs.

Time to get real about monogamy and how men are not programmed for it and what you can do as a couple to make this achievable and even desirable for the man.

Time to get to the understanding that satisfying sex is not just about the orgasm for women.

Time to get relationship training and strategies.

	Did you know that the birth control pill is creating huge issues when it comes to picking our mates and the effects can be devastating to your relationships long term health?
	Do you know the difference between love and lust?
	Do you know how to tell if your sexual chemical attraction is designed for a long term relationship or just the biological impulse to have sex to make babies? (Hint this is one of the reasons women stay with ‘bad boys” or in a bad relationship)
	Do you really understand what men need from their women and women need from their men?
	Did you know the wrong style of communication can cause divorce? ( and most of us do it)

We have many assumptions and wrong information when it comes to love and sex and each of the genders. Very often no one is talking about what they need to be talking about- they are simply complaining about their wounds and disappointments. That is not going to get you anywhere but in a sexless relationship or a break-up.

We want to be happy, and we can be. We just need relationship and sexual training. Yep it doesn’t sound sexy but the results are very sexy.

"I was about to give up on my relationship"...

 I was about to give up on my relationship but now I feel like we've been reborn as a couple. Those simple exercises recreated our connection and made me feel like I can deal with all the little stuff much better now. The most amazing thing to me was how much he 'got into it'--not easy for an engineer, I think. He got a million brownie points for participating so fully! Thanks again,
 -Jane S Wa

Here are some real issues couples are facing in their relationships

	Right now there is a 61 percent divorce rate
	40 million sexless couples in the US (sexless means sex under 8 times a year)
	78 percent of relationships face physical or emotional infidelity
	58 percent of women would rather eat, go shopping or watch TV than have sex.( the sex they are currently having that is)
	Porn addiction the number one addiction on the planet and is killing sexual intimacy in relationships
	Men are now starting to “fake it” as well
	Viagra is NOT the answer and neither is the orgasm
	80 percent of men want to last longer during intercourse and most women are secretly horrified about it

What you do not know about sex, love and intimacy will kill your chances of having a long term sexually fulfilling and deeply satisfying relationship.

Get some real training and strategies today, and be the happy couple that everyone talks about.

When you train with me you can rest assured I have helped hundreds of couples find a better way to love and have sex. You can be one of them.

The training takes place in the privacy of your own home, using Skype and our web cams. No one gets naked while in our sessions, this is education not a peep show.

You receive 3 months of training with me 1 time a week and email support for the duration of the coaching as well as some other goodies.

This is a fully custom program designed for you both based on where you currently are.

You do not need to have any Tantra information to take this coaching program.

You can be in any type of relationship from any religious or spiritual back ground and I promise to uphold and respect your beliefs.

I will address any sexual issues you might currently have if that is applicable as well.

If you are very happy right now great! I will expand your knowledge on how to stay that way.

If you want more satisfaction I will help you get to that place.

Here is what you will learn about in this 3 month couples connection and tantric knowledge program.

	What is Tantra and why it is the answer to long term satisfaction for you both
	Breathing, the art of connecting
	Anxiety why it creates rips in the fabric of love making
	Sexual myths- getting rid of false information
	Anatomy of women and men
	Orgasm types for women G-spot -ejaculation and more
	Sexual dysfunction in women
	Orgasm types for men- multi -orgasmic and more
	Sexual dysfunction in men
	Self pleasuring vs. masturbation
	Porn and why it is destroying your sex life
	Sex toys what, how and when to use them
	Intimacy what does it really mean
	Getting what you need, being vulnerable
	Connection exercises- the practices of Tantra
	Communication -men and women finally being clear
	Passion for a lifetime how to get and keep the flames going

This is what to expect in your 3 month coaching program

	1.5 hours of personal phone/Skype time with me each week, for a total of 18 hours -value $2364
	3 months active coaching between sessions evaluating and planning your next steps
	Special mp3's for your practice- value $197
	8 hours email consultations- value $1200
	First option at my classes and workshops and a 10 percent discount for 1 year
	My Conscious Breath V-book- value $47

The total value of the training program is $3,808

and my special offer to you is  $2997

You can take advantage of my two or three pay offer below

two payments of $1498.50 billed one time now and another 30 days from now

3 payment options of $999 one time now and then 2 payments 30 days apart

There is no time like right now to get your relationship on track or take it to the next level 

please email me for additional questions click here

 My husband and I were definately in love but NOT communicating well or getting along. During our first visit with Tanja, she not only helped us see the love we had but why we had it. But the best part was that she helped to interpret his language to me and my language to him. Suddenly, we were able to tentatively begin communicating with love and kindness. After only three visits, THREE!, my husband of 8 years actually is able to hear me and talk with me even when I am upset and I am able to remind myself that because I am in love with him it is very important to speak kindly when I do have an important issue to bring up. This was a breakthrough for us. I have already called Tanja to tell her personally how much we value our time with her. Actually, about once a month I send her a message to tell her how she helped us to fall into a deeper love than we even knew was possible. I honestly recommend her to any couple who is having marital difficulties. You will be satisfied with your time and money spent and literally thrilled with your new found love of both your partner and most importantly, yourself.

Rebecca Wirtel
Radio Host 91.3-One World Report