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I am so very excited to announce that my book Beyond Sex: Tantra hit #1 Amazon Bestseller in 4 countries and 3 categories. It took number 1 in sex, spirituality, and personal transformation in the US, Canada, UK and Australia!
I couldn’t have done this without all of you and to celebrate, I sent out an email to everyone giving away any product on my product page for FREE to the first 5 that gave me 3 items I NEED to create. Talk about exciting! The emails came pouring in and I was thrilled to see what you all wanted me to get to work...
Most Classical Tantra masters pre 4th century were celibate.
Sexual energy was used, however it is not the same thing as being horny or feeling sexy. It was a deeper expression of that ability to create life, the spark that was expressed in a holistic expression of self as a being created to procreate.
Kundalini was experimented with however only after rigorous training was this brought about (there is much confusion about this today, with most people believing their body awakening is actually a kundalini experience.)
Classical Tantra was not...
Internet porn is not your Dad’s Playboy or Hustler by any means. This readily available and easily accessible nonstop, get anything you want new version is actually changing men’s brain chemistry and it is wreaking havoc on their sex lives and also the way men masturbate.
This is especially problematic when young men and teens start out using porn before they have any real experience with sex. Since 80 percent of kids are exposed to internet porn by age 11, some have been using internet porn for years and years before they have any...
Modern Tantra is my baby, a labor of love and experience. My years of life, my challenges, my successes my training and my insight have all been used to create a plan for living that I use as well as teach my family and friends.
It is not grandiose; it will not change your world overnight however it will assist you to find out what really matters to YOU. It will teach you skills to understand yourself and your life choices with consciousness and confidence. It will teach you to weather life’s surprises awesome or not in a way that makes...
What does it take to learn Tantra?
The first and foremost decision to make before starting the journey to learn Tantra is to make sure you understand the different aspects of what Tantra is currently as well as the understanding the teacher has of the subject matter,
Used to be to learn Tantra you only needed to try and find a true Tantra master, and that in itself was a tough journey. Partly because a true Tantra master of yesteryear did not make it easy to find them and learn Tantra.
Unlike today where a Google search will lead you to...
Wow what a deep subject and so much debate about it. I am not a historian however I am someone who was passed along an unbroken history of 3 lineages that have gone back to the beginning of when it all started.
I was thinking first we need some reclassification with the word and concept of Tantra. Perhaps we should be re-categorizing the terms to something more like this.
Ancient Tantra prior to 1700 BC
Classical Tantra 1700 BC to 10 century AD
Sexual Tantra 10 century AD to 18 century AD
Neo Tantra 18 century AD to present
We can find...
Every day, people ask me, “What is the single most important ingredient in becoming a Master Lover?”
I tell them the key is “Breath; Conscious Breath.”
But that would be selling this incredible practice short to believe its only worth is sexual.
Conscious Breath is the very thing you need for optimum health, (physical and mental) life vitality, longevity, spiritual illumination, sexual vitality, growth and stamina, sexual mastery and spiritual sexual enlightenment.
Without Conscious Breath you will be ruled by...
I am not a Neo Tantra scholar so all the information about the beginnings of Neo Tantra have been carefully researched using the top most Tantra scholars I am acquainted with. Understand that even they have some discrepancies among them as once Classical Tantra ripped open in the early 4th century A.D. it spread like wildfire and everyone grabbed a slice and made it their own.
Using old scriptures out of context and taking what worked for what they wanted to promote, much of the foundation and traditions of Classical Tantra disappeared only to...
Modern Tantra™ what is it?
Modern Tantra™ is a labor of love and almost 24 years of growth, learning, experiences and application. It was created to fulfill a promise I made to one of my most significant teachers and a way to assist the people I coach and counsel daily.
So many self help things and workshops and we still are not getting where we need to go. I realized one of the problems was that people were not integrating most knowledge they read about or went to classes and workshops for. The stats are 2 percent use what they learn or...
Neo Tantra What is it?
Neo Tantra, New Age Tantra or as sometimes called Sacred Sex, is an important practice in our society where shame and repression are common around sexuality. Neo Tantra though has little in common with its name sake Tantra.
Neo Tantra started to split off from Classical Tantra in the 4th century but it was really somewhere around 10 th century when a sage named Abhinavagupta decided to change a ritual of the Kaula school of Tantra that it took hold widespread. The original intent of the ritual was not sexual as we...